Two Magic Words That Help You Get the Results You Want

May 1st, 2010

“The trouble with salespeople is that they’ll say anything to make a sale.” It’s a common complaint and while it’s true that there are indeed some who give into that kind of temptation, it’s doubtful that you’ll ever find one who is successful for very long. Top sales performers get to where they are-and stay there-because they are disciplined at what they do and because they communicate persuasively. This includes being choosy with their words-the opposite of saying anything-so they connect meaningfully with their customers and prospects.

Let me share with you two of the most powerful magic words that you as a sales professional can use to get the results you’re looking for.

The power of “because”

The first word is one that might surprise you, since it’s one that we all use a lot in everyday conversation. The word is “because.” To explain, let me share with you the results of a landmark social experiment led by Harvard-based behavioral scientist, Dr. Ellen Langer, who demonstrated how careful use of “because” can be amazingly persuasive with people. In Dr. Langer’s experiment, her assistant asked people waiting to use a Xerox machine if she could jump ahead of the line. Langer found that if the line-jumper simply asked if she could use the photocopier first (“Excuse me, I have five pages. May I use the Xerox machine?”), sixty percent would comply.

That’s not a bad result at all, but when the question was changed slightly, the results were truly astonishing. When the line-jumper asked: “May I use the Xerox machine because I am in a rush?” nearly everyone (94 percent) complied!

There’s valuable insight in this experiment that we can apply to sales and the art of persuasion. First, it’s surprising how well people tend to respond to a request when you first ask for their consent. And yet people respond even better to request or an idea when they are given a rationale that supports what you’re asking them to do.

Consider how this can be applied to your work as a sales professional. The next time you’re writing the closing line to a sales letter or email and you want to encourage your reader to take action today, rather than close with “call us today,” try this instead: “Act now and call us today, because this offer expires on November 30th.” The results you get could really surprise you.

The power of “never”

Let’s turn now to the second magic word you need in your persuasion toolbox: “never.” It’s a word that works in ways altogether different from the word “because.” While that latter word is commonplace and helps people form in their own minds a logical explanation for why they should do what you’re asking them to do, “never” is a word that people don’t want to be associated with.

In sales, you can leverage that to your advantage when dealing with someone who seems unwilling to make the commitment to buy. For example, you might say: “you have looked at our products and you have considered the benefits of choose us over our competitors…and yet I get the sense that there will never be a chance for us to do business together.”

Most people when they hear that will feel compelled to say or do something to position themselves as far as possible from the word “never.” After all, doing business with people is a positive thing, so who would want to be seen as the person responsible for that never happening?

An important caveat

It’s important to remember that while these two magic words-because and never-can be very powerful, they also have to be used with great care. They lose much of their effect if they’re over-used. And each time you use these tools, you need to be 100% certain that they’re backed by the truth, otherwise your credibility can be seriously damaged. As Zig Ziglar once said: “The most important persuasion tool you have in your entire arsenal is integrity.” Persuasive tools aren’t meant to deceive your customers, rather they are to be used to help people make good choices, to commit to an idea and to help put you back in control of a sale.

Colleen Francis
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7 Responses to “Two Magic Words That Help You Get the Results You Want”

  1. Joshua

    Why do you pray for tommorow when your dead even though your living today?
    Praying for some savior or God doesn’t help you until your dead. But what about now when your poor, hungry, sad, lonely, or whatever. And don’t say praying makes that stuff go away, cause if saying a couple magic words meant $20 would appear, then everyone would do it. All those people claiming prayer solved their problems didn’t mention how long it took to solve their problems. Like a weeks later, something would have happened then anyway. It’s called probability, if you sit around waiting long enough something good is bound to happen. I’m talking about immediate results, those don’t exist. It’s all BS, you know it but don’t want to admit it cause your scared of death. Or cause your horribly unintelligent.

  2. monkeytoad

    Hmmm.
    Judgmental Much?
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  3. lightningfallingfromheaven

    God says to be content no matter what’s going on.

    Also read about the 23,000 who were slayed because they complained when God rained quale (birds) down for them to feast they became fat and still weren’t satisfied so the earth swallowed them up.

    ah yes and while we’re quote scripture I’ll add this in

    It is something along the lines of good comes to those who love the lord.

    :) figured it out yet? Not enough LOVE of God going around.
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    history has shown that if we fixate on one particular subject like the atom bomb on hiroshima and nagasaki and fixate on all the evil that occured we would get no where..but instead we look content toward the future in hopes that people will come to God through jesus christ.

  4. Free Stuff in 2012

    "The gods help those who help themselves." Aesop.
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    Non-Abrahamic Theist

  5. sofie

    praying doesn’t give you physical gifts or anything. You can’t ask god for a list of toys you want (he’s not santa claus)… When you pray, you are asking for spiritual help, not for something physical and instant. Praying ain’t magic.
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  6. Jose

    Most of society has something to be grateful towards,
    As with old traditions carries Religions,
    And the religious don’t pray only when they need to,
    They pray in thanks for everything,
    That’s being faithful.

    Yes,common sense does disprove most religion,
    But then religion disproves most common sense,

    Human beings are more bound to believe what they see with their eyes,
    and yet Religion is a major part of people’s lives.

    Religion is a big anomaly,
    And most people in fear of death,
    Even you,
    Need something to get through the day,
    Whether it be Drugs or Religion,
    Our lives are filled with many illusions holding us in place.

    It serves no purpose to pray only when you need to,
    Just like it serves no purpose to Drink or smoke,

    Human beings make no sense.
    Don’t try to break that down any less.
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  7. A Friend

    If you really want insight into this dilemma you are having and seriously want solid life experience with prayer, investigate Corrie Ten Boom.

    Love
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